What is reliable except God’s love? Where does sanity abide except in Him? The one who speaks for God can show you this, in the alternative God choose particularly you as love. It is God’s will that you remember this. So emerge from deepest mourning into perfect joy. Accept God’s plan that has been assigned to just you. God’s own plan to show His child that hell and Heaven are different, not the same. That in Heaven they are all the same, without the differences which would have made a hell of Heaven and a Heaven of hell, had such insanity been possible. Have a Beautiful Day full of blessings and joy. 

Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
1 John 4:8 NIV